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What a No Contact Does for a Guy

7psychics.comOctober 12, 2023August 8, 2024

When a relationship ends, there is something that has to be done to take the stress of it off of your life. Some people choose to do a no contact. It can be hard to do a no contact with someone that you still have feelings for.

The thing with no contact is that it can be effective to change the way that someone sees you. Here is what happens after you choose to do a no contact with a guy based on psychology and biology.

No Contact Reactions

Here is what happens when you do a no contact:

  • Feeling Ignored

Most men don’t want to be ignored. They will feel like they have lost you and it will bring frustration to them. During the no contact, chances are that the guy will try and get a hold of you by texting you or even calling you. It makes them feel desperate.

Before even opening the message though, if you are going to do a no contact, you have to delete it before you ever open it so that you don’t fall into a trap of answering.  Sticking to a no contact can be hard but the more you ignore them, the more they will understand where you stand.

Chances are that your man will do whatever it takes to get your attention and will even be persistent in trying.

  • It Stirs up Curiosity

Curiosity can get the best of a man that you choose to have no contact with. Once you ignore them, they want to know why you did it and what caused you to stop giving them attention. Once you get in contact with them again, they might even realize that they were happier when you were talking to them, but they will also want to know why you chose to have no contact.

You have to have a conversation afterwards if you want to know what is going on as to why you decided to do the no contact. Maybe they treated you poorly and you decided that you weren’t going to deal with it anymore or maybe something else triggered it. If you are going to fix things, talk about his behavior and why you did it.

  • Getting in Touch

Once you understand the male mind, you might understand that after a no contact that you have to understand how their mind works. Men have been hunters and gatherers since the beginning of times, and they are there to protect and to be heroes to the women around them.

Men will look at threats and will feel things at a different level than women do. Men in the earlier times would hut and kill animals in order to win a prize, which was the meat that they could use to feed their families.

This is why people crave foods and things because they developed as a survival trait. Men in the older days found that they could get calories, fat and other vitamins and minerals and protein out of a good kill and so this triggered them to do it.

Men will also work hard in a relationship because they want to get something that isn’t easy. So, when you do a no contact, they will do what it takes to get in touch with you after.

  • Messing Up

After you do a no contact, most men will be worried about messing up again and having it happen to them again. The guy will become more masculine and will show that he is willing to do what it takes to get you back. Once you have shown him that you can go weeks without talking to him, he will realize that he had better do what is right or you will do it again.

He will begin to notice how he is treating you and what he is saying to you so that there isn’t a repeat of the same thing. He won’t be as big of a jerk either. The only bad thing is that he might decide to trick you into being nice just so you will date him again.

  • Anger Issues

The guy will also be careful not to make the same mistakes that he made with you before, but this will mean that he has to suppress things that caused him to act a certain way in the beginning. If you left him because he was always angry, he might suppress this so that he can get you back.

Men will often lash out for feeling guilt and then they will be ashamed of how they behaved and will feel bad about you ignoring them.  The no contact will make them desperate though and will make them see their actions.

  • Sneaky

A no contact might make your man be sneakier because he will think that if he does his best then you won’t do it again. This might mean that he is hiding things more than doing them in front of you like he did before.

Of course, he will likely take you more seriously because he will not really know if you are going to do it again or not.

What Does He Want?

Some men don’t even know what they want and if you do a no contact, this gives them a chance to see what that is. He might realize that he hurt you and want another chance, but he might not still be confused as to what he wants.

When you want to get back together with someone after a no contact, this can be frustrating, but you have to work through it. Try doing things differently and find a partner that is going to treat you better and not leave you in a relationship that you feel stuck in, or you feel that it isn’t good for you.

Most people want to fix their partners and if this is what you are doing, know that people are who they are, and you can’t make them someone that you want. If someone keeps disappointing, you then you might need to continue the no contact for longer.

  • Going Slow

After a no contact the guy will be happy that you are talking to him again, but he might be afraid that you will do it again. He will have tension and other things and he will learn to control the way that he talks but at the same time he might go slower when dealing with you.

  • He Might Wait

Another thing that might happen is that he might wait to see if he really wants you back or if he is willing to risk it happening again.  This lack of contact can give you power in the relationship and make them treat you good.

  • What Do They Feel?

The male after a no contact might feel bad and might be sad and upset. You might be worried that your ex isn’t going to talk to you again and you might be stressed but even if they don’t, if the relationship was bad then what does it even matter?

Final Thoughts

After a no contact, it can take time to rebuild a relationship. Go slow with it and don’t rush into things. Talk about what you want and about what you need. The best way that you can reset a relationship is with a no contact.

Once you do this, you can see what he does in response and if he wants to treat you better. When you do the no contact, remember that your man might lash out at you or try and ignore you back to see how you are going to respond or he might even try to get revenge. Know that this could happen and don’t let it upset you.

There are different sites online that you can go, and you can find out more about a no contact with your ex. You will find out how this affects you and how this affects them, and you can even find a coach that can help you with your relationship if you are still facing problems.

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9 thoughts on “What a No Contact Does for a Guy”

  1. Simple Reader says:
    July 29, 2024 at 12:41 pm

    The points about men feeling ignored and desperate during no contact are well explained.

    Reply
  2. Objective Thinker says:
    July 26, 2024 at 9:32 am

    The concept of men becoming sneakier after no contact is intriguing.

    Reply
    1. Curious Mind says:
      August 6, 2024 at 1:01 am

      I agree, it’s interesting how no contact can cause changes in behavior like that.

      Reply
  3. Casual Reader says:
    July 4, 2024 at 9:03 pm

    The section about men trying to avoid making the same mistakes is quite thought-provoking.

    Reply
  4. Balanced View says:
    May 8, 2024 at 2:27 pm

    I appreciate the detailed discussion on how no contact can make men reconsider their behavior.

    Reply
  5. Fair Perspective says:
    April 26, 2024 at 12:31 pm

    It’s good to note that no contact can help both parties realize what they truly want.

    Reply
  6. Thoughtful Observer says:
    April 12, 2024 at 12:10 am

    It’s insightful to see how no contact can stir up curiosity and change dynamics in a relationship.

    Reply
  7. Quiet Reader says:
    March 18, 2024 at 1:59 am

    This article presents some interesting perspectives on the no contact rule and its effects on relationships.

    Reply
  8. Neutral Commenter says:
    March 13, 2024 at 11:51 pm

    The article explains how the no contact rule can affect men psychologically and emotionally.

    Reply

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